Divorce. Answers to the Questions You Want To Ask.

Are you a parent navigating the complexities of divorce? You’re not alone, and this episode of “The Impactful Parent” is a must-watch!

In this incredibly insightful episode, your host, Kristina Campos, sits down with Joe Dillon, a seasoned divorce mediator from Equitable Mediation Services, to discuss how parents can protect their children and create a peaceful path forward during and after a divorce.

Joe shares invaluable wisdom on the power of choosing mediation to model respectful co-parenting for your kids. You’ll learn why a “carved in sand” approach to parenting plans is essential for adapting to your children’s changing needs as they grow. They also tackle the tough topic of high-conflict situations and offer practical advice, including the use of specialized parenting apps to de-escalate tension and minimize direct communication.

The conversation goes deep into what it truly means to “put the kids first,” highlighting the importance of quality “awake time” and unconventional living arrangements, like nesting, that prioritize your child’s stability. Joe also shares a powerful story about giving older children a voice in their living situation, demonstrating that putting ego aside is the most impactful choice a parent can make.

This video is packed with actionable advice and compassionate guidance for anyone facing the challenges of divorce and co-parenting. Whether you’re just starting the process or are years into it, you’ll walk away with new strategies to create a healthier, happier environment for your entire family.

To learn more about Joe Dillon’s work and find additional resources, visit the Equitable Mediation Services website.

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TRANSCRIPT

Divorce: Answers to your questions. 

0:00 intro to Divorce: The questions you need answers to.

2:21 What do you tell parents who are worried that they failed their children?

3:41 Role modeling during this time is SO IMPORANT.

5:07 What is the best parenting plan depending on age group?

8:43 Strategies to make difficult transitions from one parent to the other easier!

11:21 What would you tell a parent who knows their marriage is over but is paralyzed by fear about how divorce will impact their kids – where should they start to protect their children during this process?

14:40 How do you handle high-conflict situations when your ex is unmovable?

17:58 What ‘putting the kids first’ really looks like in practice!

24:20 What are some creative or non-traditional scheduling solutions? For example, letting the KIDS keep the house? What have you seen work?

28:46 When parents are creating custody schedules, they often focus on making things ‘fair’ between the adults – but how do you help them shift their thinking to what actually works for their specific child’s personality and needs?

33:33 What if your kids are old enough to have a say in where they stay?

37:16 More about Joe and his practice.

39:47 FREE EBOOK

41:48 What are some of the most common mistakes you see parents make when creating a parenting plan?

43:42 Free parenting resources

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