The Secret To Better Parenting
William Vanderbloemen discovered the secret sauce to parenting by accident. Now he shares his secret with the world in his book, Be the Unicorn. There he gives the 12 habits of the most successful people, which also happen to be the secret sauce to being a better parent! Discover how you can be a better parent too!
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The Secret To Better Parenting
The Secret To Better Parenting #1 Buy/rent a house in the best neighborhood you can afford.
The Secret To Better Parenting #2 Be strict when the child is young. Ease up as they get older.
The Secret To Better Parenting #3 Allow your child to do as much for themselves as possible. Don’t do anything for them that they can do themselves.
The Secret To Better Parenting #4 When Your child gets in trouble, allow your child to experience natural consequences. Encourage written apologies and debriefing the ‘bad choice’ after the fact- so they can learn from their mistakes. https://theimpactfulparent.com/learningquestions
The Secret To Better Parenting #5 Never give up on them. Keep trying. Remember, that your child’s perspective is the goal.
The Secret To Better Parenting #6 Use sticky notes, dry erase markers on mirrors, text messages, verbal with touch, and photos to clarify communication with your child.
The Secret To Better Parenting
The Secret To Better Parenting #7 Ask more questions. https://theimpactfulparent.com/learningquestions
The Secret To Better Parenting #8 Say I love you every day.
The Secret To Better Parenting #9 Take advantage of car rides.
The Secret To Better Parenting #110 Create a solid routine and stick with it.
The Secret To Better Parenting #11 Turn off the Wi-Fi at 10pm and put down the phone.
The Secret To Better Parenting #12 A messy house is fine.
The Secret To Better Parenting
The Secret To Better Parenting #13 Exercise, eating right, and sleep makes me a better parent. Bonus- hang out with friends!
The Secret To Better Parenting #14 Role modeling is more important than you think. What message are you sending?
The Secret To Better Parenting #15 Lead the charge with volunteer work instead of donations.
The Secret To Better Parenting #16 Don’t freak out. Learn how to control your reactions. Making kids accountable without holding the mistake against them.
The Secret To Better Parenting #17 Bonding: Do what they want to do, not what you want to do. Also spend 15 minutes of one-on-one time with each child every day. No siblings allowed during their 15 minutes.
The Secret To Better Parenting
The Secret To Better Parenting #18 Give your child as many choices as you can within the boundaries of your house rules.
The Secret To Better Parenting #19 Give your child chores around the house to earn their keep.
The Secret To Better Parenting #20 Make your child join an organized group until they find a group they resonate with.
The Secret To Better Parenting #21 Encourage your child to have a relationship with another adult other than you and their other biological parent.
The Secret To Better Parenting #22 When it comes to your rules, be consistent, and predictable and hold your line. Make sure your child knows the specific consequences of their actions. Not that they are just going to “get in trouble.”
The Secret To Better Parenting #23 Pick your battles.
The Secret To Better Parenting #24 What you feed your child matters.
The Secret To Better Parenting #25You have given life to your child, but it was never your life to live.
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